You Can Stay Married After Finding Hidden Porn
If you’re willing to work together as a couple, you don’t have to blow up your marriage.
The horror stories we’ve heard from married couples are devastating. When a wife finds out her husband has hidden struggles with porn, It can crush a relationship. For many, it’s the last straw that leads to divorce.
Lisa knew I had a porn problem when we were dating, but something changed when we were married. She wanted to be the only woman in my life. (Go figure!)
Here’s the kicker: Lisa didn’t leave.
She chose to stay with me and encourage me in my healing journey.
4 things we’ve learned that can help you stay together with your spouse after porn:
1. Remember: You’re on the same team.
What do teams do?
Attack the enemy, Not each other.
Encourage one another. When you see success and progress, celebrate it.
Give and seek forgiveness of one another. Be quick about it. Do it often.
Win or lose together.
